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Solitude(me time)-khud se baat.

Updated: Mar 16

After nearly a fortnight of hectic work and festivities (beginning with Karva Chauth and ending with Diwali), today I am feeling free. It was an action-packed time. Everyone was busy running and rushing. Now that I am free, I plan to sit down and think about what I want to do in the coming days. But before anything else, I want to spend some time with myself. It may sound strange.


As a matter of fact, in today's fast-paced world, we are constantly bombarded with information and distractions. Life has become incredibly fast, and we are forgetting the value of spending time with ourselves. Many people may call it solitude. They are afraid of solitude, associating it with loneliness or boredom.

However, I feel that embracing solitude can be a powerful and enriching experience that can enhance your well-being and personal growth. It is the art of spending time with yourself.


Let us rediscover solitude.





Solitude is not synonymous with loneliness. It is an intentional decision to spend quality time alone, free from all kinds of pressures and demands from others. It provides you with an opportunity for introspection and self-discovery, allowing you to reconnect with your inner self and gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts, emotions, and desires.


Benefits of Spending Time with Yourself:

  • Self-Reflection: Solitude provides an environment conducive to introspection.You can reflect on your life, your objectives, and your values when you are by yourself with your thoughts. This introspection can lead to personal growth and self-awareness. It can give you new breakthroughs.

  • Stress Reduction: In today’s busy lives, finding time to unwind is crucial for stress management. Solitude allows you to escape the noise and demands of the outside world, giving your mind the chance to relax and rejuvenate.

  • Problem-Solving and Creativity: Spending time alone helps improve creativity and problem-solving skills. When there are no external distractions, you can tap into your creative potential and think critically about issues in your life.

  • Enhanced Productivity: Being alone acts as a productivity booster. It provides a distraction-free environment that enables you to concentrate on work uninterrupted.


How to Embrace Solitude

  • Set Aside Time: Schedule regular "me-time" in your calendar. It could be as short as 15 minutes a day or as long as a weekend retreat. The key is consistency.

  • Disconnect from technology: Put away your phone, tablet, and other digital devices. The constant barrage of notifications can hinder your ability to truly connect with yourself.

  • Engage in Activities You Enjoy: Make the most of your me time by doing things that bring you happiness, whether it reading, hiking, painting, or simply taking a leisurely walk.

  • Journaling: Writing a journal in your me time can be a powerful way to explore your thoughts and emotions during your moments of solitude.

  • Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness, or meditation, is a technique that can help you stay present and in the moment. It can be a valuable tool for embracing solitude. It heightens your awareness of both your environment and yourself.

  • Embrace Nature: Spending time in nature can be especially rejuvenating. The serenity of the natural world can help you reconnect with yourself.

My Take:


Spending time with yourself is not a selfish or indulgent act but a vital component of self-care. Embracing solitude can lead to personal growth, self-discovery, and a more profound understanding of your inner self. It's an opportunity to unwind, reflect, and recharge, ultimately contributing to a happier, more fulfilled life. So, take a break from the hustle and bustle of life and make room for the art of spending time with yourself. You might be surprised at the richness it brings to your life.

Do you also feel Solitude benefits? if yes how does it help?

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